Coercive Control
Hidden Abuse?
Coercive control is a form of domestic abuse that doesn’t always leave bruises, but it can be just as damaging. It involves a pattern of behaviour used to dominate, isolate, and frighten someone, often within intimate or family relationships.
Coercive control can include:
These behaviours are designed to erode a person’s independence and self worth, creating a climate of fear and dependency.
The Law in England & Wales
The Serious Crime Act 2015 came into force in 2015 and made coercive or controlling behaviour a criminal offence. A conviction can lead to:
To qualify as an offence, the behaviour must cause serious alarm or distress, or make the victim fear violence on at least two occasions, i.e. there must be a pattern of behaviour, not just a single incident.
If you or someone you know is experiencing coercive control:
One key thing is that coercive control is about power and not love, though the abuser will frequently say they are doing something for the other person’s own good. Recognising the signs is the first step toward reclaiming safety, and regaining control.
Article written by Derek F, originally published 2nd Feb 2025